Many slang words do not reflect the positive affirmation of the body. It is difficult for many to even say the word “vagina.” In seminars for trauma survivors, women have named their vagina’s Virginia or Flower, whatever comes lovingly to mind. Later someone sent me a T-Shirt with the printing “I Love Virgina” (naming the state of Virginia)…which was then was changed by several women to “I Love My Virginia.” Later on, it became easier to say “vagina.”
Myths about Menopause
Awakening to Life Over 50: Two views….Two beliefs
Two women were having a conversation about menopause. One woman was celebrating her 50th birthday, the other was 60. The 50 year old has tears when she said that life was over at 50, she was shriveling up. The other said that 60 was an incredible time to create, discover, and play. These two women had very different reactions to aging. They went on to talk about sex, and sexual expression. The 60 year old was obviously passionate about her new adventures in love making, with herself and with her partner. She experiments with several lubricants that keep her “juices flowing and the fun happening.” She plays with Aloe Cadabra and the three scents, which she calls “flavors.” Those are Natural Aloe, French Lavender and Tahitian Vanilla. She felt deeper within herself, who she has become, and how she expresses herself. She is having FUN. The 50 year old listened, and perhaps soon will begin a great and wonderful journey at 50. This conversation would not be complete without luscious desserts and good wine.
Moral of the story: Mental attitude is a key to great fun!
We here at Aloe Cadabra and Seven Oaks Ranch wish you and your family a fun and happy Thanksgiving. And we wish you and your lover a juicy, delicious Thanksgiving filled with lubricity!
Menopause and a 50th Birthday in Flowers
At 50 and going through menopause, a friend shared that she was floated in a hot tub filled with gorgeous flowers. Her friends sang to her as she was floating amongst the scents of the many flowers. What a juicy way to celebrate the next phase of life.
Making Love on a Hawaii Golf Course (long par 4 edition)
On vacations we always carry Aloe Cadabra with us, “just in case” there is an opportunity to celebrate or relationship. We were in Hawaii walking along the beach and along the golf course at sunset time. The grass was an intense green, and the ocean waves were pounding the shore. We began to make love on the golf course under a palm tree on a long par four. Just as we were about to complete the act and with true celebratory sounds, the sprinklers went on. We laughed, grabbed our clothes and ran down the golf course soaked and naked, and made love again. I think we had a par on several holes, or were they “birdies?”
On another vacation we quickly crouched down between two boats on the beach. Where is the Aloe Cadabra? I’ve got it. Since we are in Tahiti, let’s try Tahitian Vanilla. Wow! Was that fun and really fun playing with the idea that we might get caught.
As my husband and I were getting into bed ready to make love, our Newfoundland dog grabbed the tube of Aloe Cadabra and presented it to us at the edge of the bed. A wonderful gift!