OK, I am waiting for my body and me to join together in a new phase of life. I am aging gracefully, I thought. Then, my secret….vaginal dryness and resulting low libido. I finding out all kinds of information especially how common this issue is. My body and me begin to dialogue. “Body tell me what is happening…down there.”
The body responds….”I do not feel safe. You have been pushing me to have sex when I do not want to. Sometimes I do not even feel acknowledged that I am there. You demand a lot of me…you keep asking me to hurry. Don’t you know that I have had natural changes in hormone levels that means that I am producing less lubrication? When I feel pressure from you, I shut down the systems. Yes, I become dry. I hope you will begin listening to me. Help me out here.
“Body, what do you want me to hear?”
The body responds…”I need you to learn more about me, so gather information about hormone replacement therapy OR NOT. When you exercise, how about exercising me, the vagina, the clitoris? Stock up on the magical and all natural personal lubricant, Aloe Cadabra, in all three scents: Natural Aloe, Tahitian Vanilla, and French Lavender. Let’s have some magic getting to know each other gently and playfully. BE PATIENT.” Let’s keep talking…..coffee or tea…some fine wine?
Candles are lit. I am home from work. This is a before dinner “quickie.” Smooth some lube on, so that I can “skate” into the lovely lips of my vagina. My fingers move in a circle as I breathe and feel the feelings building, massaging those magical pink folds of my clitoris. The feelings are building. Nothing else matters. Breathing, my sexual juices are exploding into pleasure. My heart is beating. I smiled. Maybe one more before dinner! What a way to come home to me.
Valentine’s Day, a time of love, remembering love, and taking the time to hold hands, and gently gaze into each others’ eyes, breathing deeply as you say “I love YOU.” Words may not totally express the love, but the physical connection and eye contact surely will.
In the grocery store there were three women sorting through the cucumbers that were on special. They were laughing as they each sorted through the bin of large ones, middle sized ones, long ones and “just perfect ones.” Ah, yes, the wonderful self pleasuring toy. (Make sure it is washed first!) Which one feels good? It would feel great with some Aloe Cadabra smoothed onto that amazing cucumber toy! What is next in the produce department?
Exercise your body and also your sexual body. Feel the release and you simply take some time to be with you. Fast or slow, you decide. Take some Aloe Cadabra along for the ride. Use your voice, squeal with glee. Have fun. Ride on!